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Women of India – India of Women
Sohail Parwaz , Lahore: Feb 10 2009
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Women of India – India of Women

Women, role models of Indian society, can be counted on the fingers. Most of them are Muslims such as Razia Sultana and Sania Mirza. Not that women having Hindu beliefs are not there. Rani Lakshmi Bai of Jhansi, Sarojini Naidu and Indira Gandhi are also held in great esteem along with Nur Jehan, Mumtaz Mahal and Jehan Ara Begum. But that is the story of yesteryears. In modern times, scarcely would one come across icons from divergent fields like the first woman (super) cop of the Indian police Kiran Bedi, Roopa Mishra, the first Oriya lady to top the All Indian Civil Service Examination of India at the same time being the first married lady in India to attain this feat in 2004, and Sania Mirza, the professional female tennis player from India who has made a place in the international rankings.

The prospects are there but these opportunities are achieved after hopping through hurdles like discrimination, harassment and chauvinism. Women in India are still facing discrimination, at least in the rural parts of the country and in some cultures. The number of women getting their rights has shown very faint change for the better after a steady amble of 100 years. If women have been given the right to vote, to stand for government or allowed to tiptoe into the armed forces, it doesn’t mean that all is accomplished. The truth is that much work still needs to be done for women to achieve complete equality.

If on the one hand we had Indira Gandhi becoming the first woman leader of the country, Sonia Gandhi winning the elections, Justice M. Fathima Beevi being made the first Indian woman judge of the Supreme Court and Kiran Bedi bagging the honour to be the first Indian Woman Police Officer, on the other hand we had Phoolan Devi humiliated and ridiculed ruthlessly and flying cadets Anshu Singh, Sarbjit Jag and Preeti Bhal of the Indian Airforce Academy Hyderabad sexually harassed by a senior instructor who demanded sexual advantages from the three cadets. In return, they were to be declared fit for the commission, which unfortunately they could not pull off.

Although Pakistan is blamed every now and then for crimes against womenfolk, the reality remains that the state of women in India is quite pathetic. In fact, women in India are exposed to various heinous criminal acts and atrocities like rape, torture and suppression. Some grievances females in Pakistan had, have recently been addressed in the Women’s Protection Bill (WPB) passed an year ago The hostilities against the fair sex in the neighbouring country are quite obvious.

According to the 1997 UN report, based on the evaluation of gender ratios in India with those of the developed countries, up to 50 million girls and women are assumed missing from India’s population. Though this ratio dropped to 10 million in 2005-2006, reportedly this is unfortunately the result of a systematic discrimination, including the abortion of female foetuses, which is officially banned in India. According to a survey report published earlier this year in the Indian journal News Age on January 9, 2006, the surveyors conservatively estimated that the reasons for at least 0.5 million of the missing were identified as prenatal sex determination and selective abortion.

This is found to be the main cause for the dropping of the sex ratio also, which slipped from 97 women for every 100 men in 1921 to 92.7 in 1991 and about 89 women for every hundred men now in 2006. It is termed as the most ironic example of slanting the female to male ratio. Just a day back I was going through a report published by the United Nations Fund for Preventing Abortion which was released a year back in October 2005. Only some heartless person would just read this report and toss it away casually. It quotes one Ranu from Northern India who married at the age of 18 and was forced to asphyxiate her first two baby girls merely because her husband, one Muktar, didn’t want the girls and threatened to divorce her. The tragedy didn’t end here because she was forced to terminate two later pregnancies as the foetuses were again females.

This is not the only malpractice to show harassment and discrimination against women. Rape, acid throwing, burning, making sexual advances towards colleagues are a few of the other common aberrations. While the urban legends are diminishing gradually, the rural legends are still there. In rural areas, the upper class Hindus make the lives of the lower caste women miserable. The women belonging to lower castes are often maltreated in the form of medieval barbarity at the hands of the upper class Hindus. It happens in India that the poor Dalit girls are forced to run naked on full moon nights and are forced into the Devdasi system of prostitution. Sarita Bai of Kotpuli village was raped by a custodian of the law and in other incidents females are gang-raped at religious places like a temple of Jodhpur.

The Chief Justice of the Madras High Court Justice A P Shah inaugurated a Mahila Court (women’s court) in Cuddalore just a couple of days back, which in fact is the eighth in a row. The worthy judge reminded the audience that India had endorsed the Convention on Elimination of all forms of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW) in 1993 and also that the constitution not only grants equality for women but also empowers the state to prevent discrimination against women. A P Shah was courageous enough to confess that female sex slavery and forced prostitution, forced marriage and bride burning were still in prevalence. The question is, would it be sufficient just to admit all this and then close one’s eyes?

Merely offering ‘equal opportunity’ is not sufficient. The most important thing is to provide the fair sex, a discrimination- and prejudice-free environment with immense amount of respect and cooperation by their male colleagues, otherwise bosses would keep making sexual advances against girls like fearful Flying Officer Anjali Gupta, who would remain on the run from pillar to post to save their honour.

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Puneet
Noida, India
@ Sohail

this is true about india but things are worse in Pakistan Particularly in NWFP and areas adjoing to Afghanistan. But in comparison to Pakistan women in india enjoys more rather equal rights but in Pakistan they only enjoy oppression and intimidation...
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Shazil
Islamabad, Pakistan
@prasad

where did you read in the article that there is no gender bias or crime against women in Pakistan. perhaps the woes remain the same for women, no matter whether it is Karachi, new Delhi or new york. but here the question is on the Indian mentality to blame and point out everything wrong and negative on Pakistan. for god sake can you people avoid doing so.
(Global Perspectives)
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Sohail Parwaz
Lahore, Pakistan
Puneet!\I respect your comments but as Shazil said, where did I vouch for the ideal standards prevailing for Pakistani women?
(Global Perspectives)
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Prasad
Howrah, India
Women, role models of Indian society, can be counted on the fingers. Most of them are Muslims such as Razia Sultana and Sania Mirza.


There are so many other to your a few counts and yes, indeed, we are proud of them but they enjoyed it here in India only and none in pakistan with the only name of late mrs Bhutto...it is the secular tradition of india gives equal rights to everyone unlike the dictatorship in pakistan that ruled half of years since its independence suppressing the rights of the people and kicking democracy. you have nothing to boast of but to point the fingers on us.
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Some women achievers.Koneru Humpy (Chess) Saina Nehwal(Badminton),Aparna Popat(Badminton),Jhulan Goswami (Cricket),Bachendri Pal (mountaineering) (Vasundhara Raje,Margret Alva Sheila Dixit,Maneka Gandhi,Sushma Swaraj and Mayawati (all politics) .Don’t forget about long list of women involved in world of movies as singers, directors and producers. Mahashweta Devi,Shivani, Amrita Preetam, Mahadevi Verma, Annaporna Devi,Chitra Mudgal and etc. in the field of writing.

Apart from that many High Courts have women judges. Even in villages women are playing important role as Gram Pradhans. Women toady have made their presence felt in significant way in nearly all the key positions Even on Instablogs you can feel the heat of changing image of Indian women carved in progressiveness.

No need for you people to be hyper sensitive about the plight of Indian women. We are taking all steps to improve their position in Indian society. In fact, Indian women are ensuring for themselves a better place all by their own. There are certainly very bad patches but don’t worry everything be all right sooner or later. There are many institutions working in that direction.

Lastly, save your energy for discovering flaws in your society. That will be more advantageous for you people and Pakistan too !!!!
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Lynne K
Sydney, Australia
I feel so sad reading this article about the plight women of India and Pakistan.
For a mother to have to smother/kill her own babies, Dear God how horrible just to please a retarded hateful man - living in fear of being divorced. It must be terrible conditions.
Even animals don’t distinguish the sex of their babies, they just love, accept and nurture them.
What a shame that humans are not as intelligent.
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Sohail Parwaz
Lahore, Pakistan
Yes Lynne! Its very unfortunate.
(Global Perspectives)
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Reshmi
Bangalore, India
Hi Lynne,

Its indeed sad that just because Instablogs is a free blogging site anybody can write anything and get away with it. I am really irritated by the way bloggers from Pakistan have consistently tried to malign and criticize Indian culture, economy, religious beliefs whatever, when its a known fact globally in what pathetic state Pakistan is at present! I don’t understand why they are so bothered about female plight in India, when the state of women is far worse in their own country. In India, poverty is the prime factor which forces a woman to take any extreme step, unlike Pakistan, where the chauvinistic and Taliban like mentality of the male folks is the prime factor behind it. We are indeed trying very hard to help the women of our country, and the day is not far when such mindset will be changed. Till then, I will request you not to judge the condition of Indian women based on some biased and baseless write ups

Regards,
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@Reshmi

Thanks Reshmi for a fitting reply.One need not to be Einstein to understand why Pakistan has turned into a fool’s paradise.I wished to say the same thing in similar tone but that would have made me greater ”anti-Pakistani”..ha..ha
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”Women, role models of Indian society, can be counted on the fingers. Most of them are Muslims such as Razia Sultana and Sania Mirza”

While I agree with general idea of this post...this statement is clearly biased...& unnecessary...

if u count the number of women from both sides in your own article this would be clear...
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Wonda L
Earth, Canada
The problem is,it is still a mans world and man gods that decide how the fertilized eggs of woman will live and die, or what war to send their children of to ,this has been going on forever and to think man will change overnight is naive and foolish
This hole world has been deciphered by man and all his male gods leaving woman less valuable than his domestic animals
How can we believe anything about his -story or his- Gog’s or all the rest of his -thoughts -when half of the conscious human race had no say in it
Woman have been beaten into the belief that they are part of mans world ,defending the over powering testosterone of arrogant man
Watch these same males in the face of death cry out for their mothers
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Sohail Parwaz
Lahore, Pakistan
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(Global Perspectives)
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Thank God he did not mention the names of male achievers ! The names of Mahmud Ghaznavi’s , Muhammad Ghori, Iltumish, Allauddin Khilji, Babar and Genghis Khan would have certainly appeared in BOLD LETTERS.
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Sohail Parwaz
Lahore, Pakistan
Arvind Jee,

By the way, while Genghis Khan wasn’t a Muslim, rest of the names are certainly the solid standing characters of the sub-continent’s history.
Deep regards
(Global Perspectives)
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@Sohail

I have referred to male achievers and not Muslim achievers!!!

Yes, I know he was not a Muslim.He was born in a Mongol Tribe!!!
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Wonda L
Earth, Canada
We can mention all the names you want, but it won’t take away the fact woman have little say in the world and never did ,leaving half the world conscious voices silent and when speaking only mimicking the over powering males thoughts
All will be ok because the male testosterone gods will save them– if subservient enough
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Sohail Parwaz
Lahore, Pakistan
Wayne!
I fully agree with you.
(Global Perspectives)
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Wonda L
Earth, Canada
Sohail-It is too bad that in this time in his-story that we are still blinded by evolution using easily persuaded males to do her dirty work,making them think the world and universe were only able to be created by man and woman stand by our sides and say (oh your so smart master)
Woman are a long way from being equal ,it took thousand of years for man to think the world and gods are his and thousands of years to change
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Sohail Parwaz
Lahore, Pakistan
Wayne
It is high time to change this chauvinist thinking may it be India, Pakistan, US or the rest of the world.
Have a nice weekend, my friend
Wishes
(Global Perspectives)
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Wonda L
Earth, Canada
Sohail
I am afraid that it will be long after we are gone before you will see any change ,the first thing is to stop males from waring to see who’s testosterone is more powerful
Woman are still the objects of man and he will fondle them as he wishes
Hope all is well
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Lynne K
Sydney, Australia
Hi Reshni
I wasn’t judging India or Pakistan, but ”the situation” as told, whether it be in China, Middle East or anywhere else in the world - where the killing of females is practised because they are simpley - female.
I judge the mentality (or lack of) with these stupid thick men and their male ego’s, as I said before - even the animals don’t differentiate what sex their offspring are.

In normal animal social behaviour it is usually the parents who will display altruistic behaviour and sacrifice themselves for the survival of their young but unfortunately it is human beings who unnaturally commit the most amount of infanticide out of all the species, so maybe we humans are lacking basic parental instincs and instead are completely self centered, it is disgracful for ANY man to demand that his wife kill their own children.
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